“A parent’s love is whole no matter how many times divided”.
The truth is – only parents love us unselfishly. However, we often do not understand their love. Many times we have quarrels and disputes with them even on small issues. Then, the ego prevails over us. Because of this, we are angry with our parents. However, that’s not right. Just think, today we are in the world only for parents. So, what will happen to the argument? We should not argue with them about anything. The following steps can be taken to avoid this argument.
1) Try To Understand What They Are Saying:
Many times for some reason we suddenly get angry with our parents. Dad, Mom whatever says is annoying to us. Anger often causes us to do many inhumane things that are wrong. Our parents says the words for our good – it takes a long time to understand. So, keeping a cool head and patiently listening to their words for our better future. So I think we should try to understand their words without being angry.
2) Spend Time With Them:
As time goes on we are getting busy. Or, many of us are drowning on the phone most of the day – whether for a reason or not. As a result, especially children are losing their brains. For this reason, attitudes like anger or evil are being created in them. However, we should try to give parents at least 1 hour in 24 hours. You have to share everything with them. Our little feelings like anger, pride, pain, sorrow, laughter, longing are most valued by the parents. Not only that, but we also have to think about what they want to say, what they are forbidding to do, what they are saying to listen. In this way, we have a good relationship with our parents. and avoid arguments with parents.
3) Try To Help Them:
Try to help parents without arguing with them. You have to help them in their daily work. In this, they will be happy and we will be happy too. However, the problem is that nowadays we are busier than parents. Maybe it’s about studies or hobbies or mobile. It is better to be busy. At times, however, small chores relieve us of the monotony of work. Therefore, instead of arguing, they should spend some time helping others without spending time doing anything bad.
4) Be Willing To Compromise:
One of the most important things we can do to avoid arguments is to show our parents that we are willing to compromise. If we refuse to compromise, it will show our parents that we are more immature and that we really only care about getting our way.
Any relationship survives in compromise and trust. However, we forget to compromise our parents by prioritizing our ego. Many times when we argue with them we almost show anger over the food, not eating. After a while, no one else, father, and mother came and told us to break our anger and eat. Very few people break their parents’ anger. Think about how much our father, mother compromises, and sacrifices for us. So, why don’t we? Our job is to compromise at least a little bit to make them happy.
In general, we often make mistakes. But, for ego’s sake don’t admit it easily. Anger is caused by ego. All the anger fell on our parents for not being able to fix it. As a result, we speak a lot of vulgar language. But, later regret it again. We apologize later. But, if we apologize for our wrongdoing before we go, then neither we nor our parents will suffer. Again, in many cases we forget to apologize. It’s even more terrifying. Everyone makes mistakes. But, ego is an obstacle in correcting mistakes. We have to go beyond this and admit the mistake and learn the right thing from the parents.
To every child, father, a mother is like a blessing from God. They stay by the side even in difficult times of life. When we make a mistake, they forgive us without thinking. The best education in life is not from a book, but from parents. So, it is better for our body and mind not to waste time arguing but to spend time loving them a little. We can’t be happy by hurting our parents. So, Avoid arguments with parents and try to keep Dad and Mom happy every moment, to be good with them together.