In both our personal and business lives, there are times when we connect with other people and make them happy to communicate with us. Good communication with people keeps our mind and body healthy. We don’t want anyone to misunderstand us, or to ruin our relationship with anyone close to us. Even so, owning one is still beyond the reach of the average person. So, here I want to share 6 tips to avoid communication killers. Here 5 Tips For Good Communication Skill.
1)Don’t Talk Too Much About Yourself:
When we talk to someone, if we just talk about ourselves, let’s say we went there yesterday, ate this yesterday, health was sick two days ago, and so on. That is, we spoke our own words. And we didn’t care what the other person wanted to say. But then the relationship can be ruined. That’s why we have to listen to others and say the same thing to ourselves. That way the relationship will stay good.
2) Don’t interrupt:
This is one of the most common communication blunders. We start out listening to someone but then we begin to think of what we are going to say next and we tune them out. When we have our thoughts ready to launch, we break into the discussion and start talking. This is insulting to the other party as you did not let that person complete his or her comments. In this way, distance is created between us and the relationship starts to deteriorate.
So, don’t interrupt the others.
3)Don’t Make The Other Person “Wrong”:
Too many people view communication as an argument where the objective is to prove that they are “right” and that the other person is wrong. Just think about it. When we talk to someone and constantly try to prove the other person wrong in order to win ourselves, ten naturally a dissatisfaction will arise in his mind. This is how communication is lost. So in order to maintain good communication with someone, what he is saying should be given equal importance.
4) Don’t Talk Too Much About The Negative:
Negative words never let us win. Obstacles to progress that we all know. So, it is not right to talk to someone negatively or to be in contact with a person with a negative attitude. When we speak negatively to a person, that person will lose interest in us. It destroys our relationships and conversations. We also often lose close friends. So don’t talk too much about the negative.
5) Don’t change the subject abruptly in a group discussion:
When we discuss an urgent matter with someone, we should discuss the matter with a full will. If we say something else while talking to someone, then the other person may feel insulted. In this way, a lot of communication is lost. We also need to listen carefully to what others are saying during the conversation and then we have to give feedback.
Finally, I would like to say that we should pay attention to what others are saying and why they are saying it. In addition, others like us should be informed. That way both the relationship and the communication will be good and we all will be good too.